a friend of mine is co-parenting with her estranged husband with whom she shares a mutually disagreeable restraining order so that they are both now having to constantly engage a third, fourth, and even fifth party to arrange for scheduling, shuttling, child care, hospital visits, in-laws in town, etc.
so many couples fight but these two just party.
after china invaded tibet in 1950 many men disappeared through forced exile, prison or murder leaving most children of that generation to be raised without fathers.
nice how every little genocide has its own little lick someone like me can trot out like shit on a stick.